passion8kisses: sugar 'n' spice everything nice

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Many and varied, mostly intellectual. Lately mostly hypnotism and military skills. Quantum and theoretical physics, ancient Iraq/Sumerian history, Lamarckism, remote viewing, cooking a wide variety of ethnic cuisines, politics, taking close up photos of wild black bears in nature, ancient religious history, anything health related, hypnotism, krav maga, emergency outdoor survival skills, emergency preparedness, writing fiction, spy craft skills, tole painting, playing with my favorite dog (American cocker spaniels), mountain camping, speed walking outdoors, wilderness horseback riding, wilderness hiking, whitewater rafting, kayaking, military tactics, UFO stories, computer skills, portrait and nature photography, the non-locality of the human mind.
61 years old
Interests Share
from 46 to 59

5'4" (163cm)


Have some extra pounds


medical professional, master hypnotist






Bachelors degree








Private University


United States
Salt Lake City




sugar 'n' spice everything nice
I have a professional career in health care. I have no vices (unless that's what you call a mortgage payment these days). The only gambling I've ever done is by agreeing to get married (they say odds of success are less than 50% these days). I live the Golden Rule. All my romantic relationships ended on good terms; they said I was the best friend they'd ever had. My musical tastes are very eclectic (not to be confused with eclectic guitar). I moved to Utah to use the world's 2 largest genealogy libraries, because my favorite hobby since I was 16 is genealogy. I currently have over 4,500 names in my pedigree which goes back through early American Quakers to the earliest Scotland and England's royalty (which is the only reason I was able to trace it that far back in history). Now I do genealogy infrequently, because I've pretty much done all that can be done with it, and for occasional fun I do genealogical research on the internet, so it doesn't matter at all to me where I live. My family is all deceased and I never had children so I have no family ties holding me here or anywhere. My career is really easily mobile too. My IQ tested between 139-149 since age 12 when it was 149. I'm revealing this because being within a few points of each other in IQ is one of the characteristics of marriages that last.

My favorite quote:

All truth passes through three stages: First, it is ridiculed; Second, it is violently opposed; and Third, it is accepted as self-evident. -- Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860)

Many of the men's profiles say "I'm just looking for someone who likes to have fun".... (well who doesn't like to have fun?) Or is "fun" just a euphemism used by a man who can't spell fornication? I believe that a romantic relationship should be a sanctuary that nourishes emotionally, physically, spiritually and mentally and it's important to me to do my part in this.

Who am I looking for? Friends first. I believe, as Nietzsche wrote "a good marriage is based on the talent for friendship". They say that when you meet the right one, you'll know right away, but then how come it can take six years to know you've met the wrong one? I'm only attracted to men like myself as far as values go: who have higher than average morals, good character, who live the Golden Rule. Gentlemen's manners very much preferred. In addition to the usual expectations we all have about who we want to marry, my own personal "must haves" that I'm screening for to potentially MARRY are:

1. Must be white. I do not discriminate based on race, religion., etc. but judge people by the content of their character, however I'm just not attracted to men of different race and people of the same cultural background have higher marital happiness statistically
2. non-smoking, non tobacco using
3. clean shaven (or willing to be)
4. tall
5. not more than five years older than myself. My age or younger preferred. My ex-husband is eleven years younger (age had nothing at all to do with why I wanted the divorce) and most recent long-term boyfriends are all in their early forties. I'd rather not be a widow.
6. Well above average IQ (that's the only reason I'm on here)

I think profiles with no photos may be men with wives or warrants out for their arrest. If you think we might be compatible, write to me and I'll tell you a secret.

Watch the following short DVD clip (shown with permission) about physicist Nassim Haramein's groundbreaking discovery of a specific geometric array that he found to be fundamental to creation, and the foundation for his Unified Field Theory, known as the Haramein-Rauscher metric, which is a new solution to Einstein's Field Equations that incorporates torque and Coriolis effects. Laying down the foundation of what could be a fundamental change in our current understandings of physics and consciousness, this groundbreaking theory has now been delivered to the scientific community through peer-reviewed papers and presentations at international physics conferences. In addition to his scientific papers, Mr. Haramein imparts this theory in a layman's paper, a 4 DVD set entitled "Crossing the Event Horizon: Rise to the Equation," which can be purchased at


(off the top of my head) Lee Child, Zecharia Sitchin, Laurence Gardner, Hugh Nibley, Ingo Swann, Cleon Skousen, Suzanne Brockmann, Carlos Castenada, Michio Kaku, Nassim Haramein, David Hatcher Childress


If you'll know right away when you meet the right one, then how come it can take six or more years to know you met the wrong one?




Balderdash is my all time favorite, Rook (Kentucky Rules) comes second, I'm not much of a game player. Learning is my favorite entertainment. I'm an information addict.


favorite movies are "Shining Through, Malice, the latest James Bond movies beginning with Timothy Dalton, Swept From the Sea, Dragonfly, the Edge, the Fugitive, Enemy at the Gates, the Professional, The Usual Suspects, The Constant Gardner, Beyond Borders, Tears of the Sun, Terminator, Bourne Identity incl. sequels, the Net, Primal Fear, Shawshank Redemption, the Star Wars movies, Out of Africa, First Knight, Torn Curtain, Fracture, Tess of the D'Urbevilles (all the new versions of the literary classics), a Few Good Men, Awakenings, Rambo. See below for a sample of my favorite music.


That's too personal to publish



Performing Arts
Visual Arts
health conscious
home cooking
steak and potatoes
wide international palate


dogs horses dolphins


My Profile My Match



Deborahs Favorite Songs



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