Smart is fun, sexy, kind, interesting, tolerant, positive, appealing, open to new things, able to grow, etc., etc.
People can be smart without a lot of formal education, without a lot of money, without having travelled a lot.
Smart people are not mean-spirited and they don't have closed minds.
Smart is great!
 
 
 
Margaret Laurence
Tolstoy
Leonard Cohen
Margaret Atwood
Alice Munroe
Mordeci (sp.) Richler
Kipling
John Le Carre
Robertson Davies
SomersetMaughm
Shaw
Gloria Steinem
Louisa Mae Alcott
Simone de Beauvoir
Dorris Lessing
John Grisham
Carol Shields
Ted Hughes
Ian McEwan
M G Vassanji
etc., etc.
 
 
 
What's the most fun you've ever had?
 
 
 
The other person is most important - someone you can feel a connection with. Can be emotional, intellectual, sexual - but there has to be some shared experience, values or interests. If the date also involved music, sailing, dancing or amateur theatre it would be ideal. A Shaw play and a long stroll at Niagara on the Lake would be blissful!!!!!!!
 
 
 
monopoly
crokinole
Trivial Pursuit
 
 
 
Doctor Zhivago
Gone with the Wind
Anna Karenina
Butch Cassidy & the Sundance Kid
Funny Girl
Jazz
Blues
 
 
 
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